NVR online group

Service Description

Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) is a, non-punitive, evidence-based parenting approach that empowers caregivers to manage, reduce, and de-escalate aggressive, controlling, or self-destructive behaviors in neurodiverse children. It focuses on increasing parental presence, building secure connections, and setting firm, respectful boundaries, rather than relying on control. Key Principles of NVR for Neurodiverse Kids Active Engagement (Not Withdrawal): Instead of fighting or giving in, caregivers adopt a stance of "I am here, I will not accept this behavior, but I will not harm you". Focus on De-escalation: The goal is to lower tension rather than win an argument, which is vital for children with sensory overload or emotional regulation challenges. The "Letter from the Heart": A therapeutic tool used to announce a change in approach, focusing on love and commitment rather than punishment. Support Networks (SOS): NVR emphasizes building a team of family, friends, or professionals to support the parent, reducing isolation. Reframing Behavior: Understanding that "challenging" behavior is often a sign of distress, trauma, or a need for accommodation, rather than simply disobedience. NVR and Neurodiversity (Autism, ADHD, PDA, etc.) NVR is specifically adapted for neurodiverse children who may experience high levels of anxiety, sensory issues, or communication difficulties. Adaptation for PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance): NVR techniques can be tailored to reduce pressure, using collaborative approaches rather than direct demands, which helps reduce resistance. Communication Adjustments: Because neurodivergent children may struggle with verbal processing, NVR often emphasizes non-verbal cues and giving time for processing. Strengthening Relationships: It is designed to rebuild trust, which is often damaged by cycles of aggression and punishment. Benefits for Families Increased parental confidence and reduced feelings of helplessness. Reduced child-to-parent aggression and improved, calmer family dynamics. A focus on long-term safety and connection rather than immediate compliance.